Guide To Couples Pussy Pumping!

Female Pumping

I am a pussy pumper. I am proud to be a pussy pumper, and today I write to you to bring you the low down of pussy pumping.

Consider this, pussy pumping 101.

I was once like you, sitting on the other side of the screen reading people write about their experiences with pussy pumping and wondering if it was the thing for me. I asked myself several questions such as;

Will pussy pumping hurt, or will it cause damage?

Will my vagina look like vaginas in porn movies?

Will the vaginal swelling go down?

Will my sexual partner find it weird that I want to pump my pussy?

 

I had all of these questions in my head, and more. After having used them, after considering myself experienced with them, I think that they are delightfully humble little toys that can bring a whole new meaning to your sex life, your joy of sex, and the pleasures of sex.

Times have changed, my partner and I are incredibly happy and I am very happy to say that we now enjoy the use of a pussy pump together. It’s a unique experience for both of us, as it doesn’t directly provide sexual pleasure, but it can result in sexual pleasure. Over my time as reading pussy pumping forums and the like I’ve seen a hell of a lot of questions being asked about vaginal pumping on the internet. These questions are both from men and women, who might be interested in using vaginal pumps on themselves, or with their partner but are a little unsure of how to begin or what to do. So here it is, my comprehensive guide to vaginal pumping that can be read by anyone, but is primarily aimed at men, so that you can take the fast road into the enjoyment of a pump and avoid all the mistakes that I made.

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Pussy pumps

So Firstly, Why Would Anyone Want To Use A Pussy Pump?

Yes, they look a little crazy and contrary to popular belief their not designed to suck the semen out of you after sex, nor will they cause your insides to fall out. The two main benefits of the pussy pump are the look and the feel of the pump itself. There are many men out there, and women, who are specifically attracted to pumped up pussies. A quick look through Tumblr will reveal page, after page, after page of pumped up pussies with swollen vulva’s. Others might enjoy the sensations that pussy pumping provides. I for one specifically enjoy the increased sensations, and my partner just loves the look. I couldn’t care less for the appearance, my vagina is my vagina and there’s not much I can do about that, but it makes my partner happy and since I also get something out of it, I’m more than happy to oblige him. Still there are others out there looking for a tighter vaginal feel, and there are other folks in the world who get a kick of the medical look of the device and love incorporating it into their BDSM and role play scenes.

 

 

Dr Laura Berman demonstrates a vibrating clitoral pump. A clitoral pump accelerates blood flow and increases vaginal sensitivity and sensations. The pump is designed to promote blood flow and assist women who might have delayed orgasms, or take a little longer to achieve climax than others.

I’ve been there. I’ve tried them. And one thing that I learnt was to measure up. There’s no one size fits all pussy pump out there, believe it or not! It makes sense right? Firstly, everyone is different and secondly if you don’t measure up all you’re going to receive is pain and disappointment. You need to be measuring yourself from just above the clitoral shaft, and right down to the base of the perineum. From there you can also measure from one side of your bikini line to the other. Unlike penis pumps which have virtually every size and width available, vaginal pumps are a little more limited, and whilst it’s going to be very difficult to find a perfect fit, you’ll need to just get the closest size one, grip on tight and hope for the best.

 

 

When the suction cup is too large the cup might include the anal region. Resulting in the fact that every time you suck, it’ll be sucking at a particularly sensitive area, and pulling the skin around your anus. Not very comfortable, and doesn’t at all feel good. Cups that are too large can be quite painful as a result of this.

Conversely, when the cups are too small, there will not be enough suction provided to the area that you need it to, resulting in a disappointing level of suction. After my experience with the large cup I had mistakenly thought that my vagina was on the petite size of the scale and bought a cup marketed at the petite. I could never get the level of suction I wanted resulting in some very disappointing sessions.

The use of a pussy pump is covered elsewhere in this site, so I don’t want to rehash that too aggressively. What I will stress the importance of is the use of lubricant and shaving the bikini line to ensure the perfect seal.

This is probably the trickiest bit of the entire session, trying to get the right seal to begin your pumping session. Lube it up and begin. Having a partner might help in this regard because they can more easily check the placement and make the adjustments necessary in order to get that seal. For this the best position to be in will be to be laying on your back with your legs spread outward. From here, have the resting on the pubic mound making sure that the bottom of the pussy pump cup has covered your vaginal entrance, and is resting on the perineum and not too far down.

From here, you’ll need to add a teeny tiny bit of pressure. Push gently onto the cup and push it into the skin. This will help enormously in the development of a seal and ensuring that there is an airtight connection. Just remember to be gentle with this. Once you have applied a small amount of pressure, squeeze the bulb and gently release it to form the seal. If you’ve done everything correctly you will see the labia and the clitoris being sucked into the pump. If you haven’t, then a seal won’t be formed and you’ll need to reposition the cup into the correct place and repeat the above process until a seal has been formed.

If you’re using the pussy pump on your partner, ensure that you’re communicating, especially if you have any doubts. If you’re a little unsure. Hand her the cup and the bulb and let her guide it. She will know her body, and she can feel what’s going on more closely than you. If you’re a little worried about hurting her, or unsure of how much pressure she can talk, walk through it together. If she’s a little nervous, try upping her arousal with a small clitoral vibrator, an external massage, or some oral sex.

 

 

What is suction play? This video goes through the variety of suction play, why it is important for BDSM kink play, as well as all the fun things you can do with suction play. This video explores clitoral and nipple suction play as well as how to ensure the utmost of safety during these types of play.

It is important to note that the effects of the suction are felt most during the release of the bulb, and not necessarily during the squeeze. It is important to remember this as you don’t want to cause your partner any pain during the exercise, and nor do you want to lose any suction. When my partner and I first started playing with suction play and a vaginal pump, he would squeeze the bulb slowly to increase the suction, and then release it fast. This is not what you want to do at all. I know that it seems more logical to do it like that. What happens though is that through releasing the bulb quickly, it causes the air to be sucked out of the cup very quickly, and that can cause the vulva to be sucked back quickly into the cup. If one is already at their limit that sensation can be a little too painful and intense. The problem with squeezing the bulb too slowly, means that there’s the potential to quickly lose suction as well, so the golden rule that seemingly applies to this situation is to squeeze fast and release it slowly.

The entire session will need to done slowly and not rushed. Sucking with a toy is a lot more intense than through cunnilingus and other such foreplay activities. The cup has a much larger surface area, and there can be a higher level of suction that can be achieved with one’s mouth, meaning that the seal on the cup is much stronger. If I need to spell it out to you, I will – mouths have nice soft plump edges whereas pussy pumps do not. Pussy pumps will have a silicone or rubber edge which is rigid.

If you’re watching porn during this kind of sexual stimulation do not let the porn guide you. When I am using a pussy pump it can take up to 30 minutes plus before I achieve that plump look that my partner likes. I don’t know what they’re doing on some of the fetish porn or whether that’s just me being wimpy, or what’s happening there. But if I don’t take it slowly I end up in pain and it’s just not going to work for what I want it to do. I guess what I’m trying to say in some convoluted way, is to be patient, if what you’re after isn’t happening right away, then that’s perfectly okay. It might take some time, or it might require the use of a different pump, but don’t let disappointment ruin the buzz because as long as it fits, and you can get a decent seal and some solid suction – then something is definitely going to happen.

 

The first time that you use the pump, whether that’s alone or together, there’s going to be mistakes. It happens when you’re using new toys and especially toys that use suction, or are inflatable, or vibrate in a different way to normal. It takes a while to get accustomed to. It happens, you’re learning it’s a new sensation and you’re just learning how to apply that new sensation into your sexual activity. It’s important that there’s an open and honest communication here. If something hurts, or something is not feeling just quite right, then it needs to be adjusted and reapplied, or something else needs to be done. My partner and I had many giggles as we learnt how to use the pump, and from there we had to distinguish whether it was the pump that was causing the issue or our use of the pump. As such we’d use the same pump continuously over several different sessions to see if the pump was at fault, or whether it was us.

As you experiment with the pump, you’ll realise that it is primarily a game of stop and start. There can be massive differences between the intensity of one squeeze in comparison to the second squeeze. So take it one squeeze at a time, until she lets you know that she’s there, hold it at that point for either a few seconds or minutes depending on the ability to handle the sensation. Air will slowly release from the cup, even with the best of seals, so it’s important to keep the pump ‘topped up’. As with any seal, air can and eventually will leak into the cup. If she starts to feel the pressure of the cup dropping – then give the bulb a gentle quarter squeeze just to refresh it. You might need to do this every 20 seconds or so, depending on the body and the cup

By now, if you haven’t realized, the best way for a pussy pump to work is with a continued level measure of pressure and suction. To do this, you’re going to need a pump that works properly. If you’re finding that the pump you’re using or have previously purchased, just isn’t doing what you want, and you’ve ensured that it’s not through user error, then head to your local adult lifestyle store and get some further advice. In saying this about your pump, it is advised that you release the suction every now and then during the session – the sensation of this can feel absolutely amazing though it really depends on her personal preferences and her ability to handle sensation. This will also prolong the session – if you pump her up, keep her at her limit for a while, and then release the suction, either a little bit, or completely. This will also help with blood flow, sensitivity issues and a variety of other sexual dysfunctions as well. Penis pumps work in a similar way, the vacuum will help with erectile dysfunction for mature men, as well as a variety of other sexual dysfunctions. With vacuum pressure being applied across both genders, and having proven success, you can rest assured that your vaginal and clitoral pumping will assist in some way. The breaks in suction will also give a break from the intense sensation of being sucked at. Taking the break will end the session, nor will it impede on the swelling or the increased sensitivity. Keep repeating this process, and trying to push the body further a little each time.

The first few sucks of the pump are going to feel absolutely amazing. She’ll feel the suction on her labia and her clitoris and it’s going to drive her insane. Her clit will harden, and she will feel some swelling from the rush of blood to the region. There’ll be a nice tingly sensation as the nerves are activated and this is the perfect place that you want to be for people that are having difficulty in achieving orgasmic pleasure.

Notice how I said the first few sucks. The more you pump, the more intense the sensation and feelings can get. If you’re specifically looking for the swollen look, then you will need to be pushing the body to its limits on the pleasure and pain sensation scale. It’s a mix, on the one hand the suction on your genitals are going to feel absolutely amazing, but on the other hand the sensation can feel a little uncomfortable due to the ferocity of the sensation. It can feel a little uncomfortable due to the edges of the cup which can dig in as the pressure increases, it’s certainly not a horrible pain but it can be distracting. Just remember to take it slow, increase the pressure slowly and overtime, and you should come out alright.

There’s also a bit of mental stimulation in this as well, at least that is what I found. The knowing that you will get more sensitive, that the feelings will drive you over the edge. Then there’s the thought that your partner is holding the cup, the taboo and naughty nature of the activity, and of course the pleasure of watching each other’s eyes light up as both of you enjoy the situation at hand.

 

 

A short instructional video on how to use a pussy pump from a person who loves to pump her own pussy. Simple, straightforward and to the point.

This is a Pussy Pump FAQ, and it needs to be stated that the swelling is only temporary. In fact once you stop pumping the swelling will subside and go down pretty quickly. The majority of the effects will last up to an hour or so, and everything will have returned to normal by the next day.

Keep in mind that I am not a doctor, nor do I have any qualifications in the medical profession. However, I will point out that most doctors that would comment on pussy pumping, might never have tried it themselves, or they might have seen cases of extreme pumping. Any sexual activity has risks, especially when user manuals are not adhered to or the toy is misused, or used incorrectly. I personally have never experienced any harm, or damage from the use of a pussy pump. But there is always a possibility with any sexual aide that you use. Take it slow and listen to your partner.

Souxi’s Pussy Pumping Experience!

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I’m fairly private in my sexual activities, and I had no idea that other women were also into pumping their clit. I started when I found my BF’s penis pump; just wanted to experience the sensation of the vacuum pressure. Before I started I had a huge clit anyway (about 2 inches), and now after a few months my clit is 3 inches erect.


The penis pump was too wide to really play around with much, so I searched for what I might use. Let me tell you some 1 inch diameter clear flexible plastic tubing has become a favorite play toy. It’s long enough that I simply position over my clit (I don’t like including the hood as it inhibits the length I can suck my clit to) and I begin sucking the other end of the tube, using my tongue across the end to hold pressure. I can lay back and suck myself off like this for ages, gently reducing pressure, increasing, and feels soooo good when I quickly alternate, sucking it up and letting it retreat, and sucking it up….oh yeah! Bliss…and multiple orgasms!


Of course you’ve got a longer cleaning job to keep a long tube sterile, but I think it’s worth it.


My BF loves the size of my clit, he’s so turned on that he has a cocklet to suck and pull! At this length it’s easy to pull myself off with my fingers which is nice and handy when out and about. I usually duck into a rest room, off with the panties, and jerk off…loads of cum, and its totally awesome watching my clit lurch, pulse and pump all by itself when I cum! A quick wipe of my inner thighs, panties still clean, and out into the street again like an innocent virgin ha!
Thanks to all here who have shared their stories and hints and photos, you’ve all inspired me, and of course I don’t feel so alone in my clit sucking and pumping pleasures.


I’ll submit some pics as soon as I get my hands on a camera. Gives my BF an instant roaring erection when he sees my stiff clit poking way out from my lips! Still doesn’t quite feel like I’ve reached the longest it can go, but 3 inches is plenty for me to enjoy at the moment. 


My only regret…I wish I’d have thought of this when I was a teen and had more time to play ;).  Well that’s it for my pussy pumping experience.

Pussy Pumps To Treat Anorgasmia!

Anorgasmia Symptoms

If you have ever felt that you had regular difficulty achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual stimulation, you may be suffering from a medical condition called Anorgasmia. This unfortunately is a problem affecting a noteworthy amount of women which has the potential in causing personal distress and even the unfortunate event of a relationship breakdown. If you are satisfied with your ability to climax, then there’s no need for concern. If you’re suffering from a lack of orgasm or the intensity of your orgasms, talk to your doctor about Anorgasmia as this is a real medical concern.

Since the clitoris is full of nerve endings, and already sensitive to the touch, the use of a clitoral pump may help with Anorgasmia. By pumping and directing more blood flow into the clitoris, suffers may experience a clitoral orgasm. This is a natural way to possibly cure Anorgasmia and exercise the nerve endings found in the clitoris and vagina. The promotion of blood flow will actively help in the restoration of sensitivity and the ability to experience an orgasm.

Each orgasm, however brought upon, will vary in intensity, frequency and the amount of stimulation needed to trigger a climax. Some women do not consistently have orgasms with vaginal penetration alone. Some women must have clitoral stimulation in order to achieve an orgasm. If you are bothered by the lack of orgasms you experience or the intensity in which they happen you may be suffering from sensitivity issues, relationship issues, emotional and psychological distress, depression and anxiety or simply an inability to relax.

 

Female Sexual Dysfunction And The Treatment Of Anorgasmia Through Pumping

 

The way an orgasm feels varies from woman to women and could even differ from sexual experiences, partners, between the lingerie that they wear and environments. Not every woman may have orgasms like they are portrayed in popular media and there is no need to have self-doubts upon yourself and performance.

In recent studies involving women in the US, only 29% of women state that they will always orgasm with their partner, 10% of women have answered that they’re never had an orgasm with 15% saying that they struggle to achieve climax the majority of the time.

Causes of anorgasmia are varied and range from physical to mental illnesses and difficulties. The condition is generally classified in the medical field as being of a psychiatric disorder. However, this is limiting in its definition as it can also be caused by such things as diabetic neuropathy, multiple sclerosis, and genital mutilation. Further, it might be caused by surgery, pelvic trauma a hysterectomy, spinal cord injury.

The use of anti-depressants might also cause anorgasmia in both men and women, specifically with SSRI’s or selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. Studies vary but the reports state that anywhere between 17 and 41 percent of users of such drugs will experience some form of sexual dysfunction.

There are four different types of Anorgasmia which may be temporary or lifelong:

 

Lifelong Anorgasmia:

is when a woman has never experienced an orgasm before. This is also known as primary anorgasmia. This is significantly more prevalent in women, though it can happen with men with underlying medical issues. Women who suffer from this form of anorgasmia might have it accompanied by an abnormally low level of sex drive and sexual excitement. Vascular engorgement is limited and sufferers might also experience high levels of frustration, increasing restlessness or even pelvic pain. Some researchers also believe that a lifelong or primary anorgasmia might be the result of an unusually harsh, or repressed, upbringing which has taught an individual that they are not supposed to enjoy sexual activity and that sexual activity is not a cause of pleasure.

 

Acquired Anorgasmia:-

Is when a woman use to have orgasms, but now have difficulty reaching an orgasm. One who knows their body well would know when they are suffering from acquired Anorgasmia, because they have previously achieved orgasm at least once in their lifetime. This is also known as secondary anorgasmia. Causes of secondary anorgasmia might be related to drug or alcohol abuse, depression and grief, pelvic surgery, or even as the psychological effects of rape.

 

Situational Anorgasmia:-

Means you are able to achieve orgasm only during particular situations. Situational might entail that an individual will orgasm from one sexual partner, but not the other, or will find that they are only responsive to specific forms of stimulation. These are all common variations of human sexuality, and are normally not considered to be problematic. Women who say they can only achieve orgasm by their clitoris or only when they have vaginal insertion may suffer from situational Anorgasmia. It is noted that most women cannot reach orgasm though vaginal penetration alone. These ladies must have clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

Lastly there is a generalized Anorgasmia where the lady is unable to orgasm in any situation or with any partner.

A clitoral pump is a device intended for ladies’ pleasure that is connected to the clitoris or labia to make suction and expand blood stream to the privates. This gadget gets from the male model, the penis pump, which showed up in the mid-1900s and is proposed for sexual improvement, or the treatment of sexual dysfunction and clitoral or labial rejuvenation often experienced after menopause.

A clitoral pump may be utilized on the clitoris, clitoral hood, labia (both minora and majora), and the whole genital region and, at times, the areolas. The clitoral pump, similar to the penis pump, may be utilized preceding, or amid, masturbation for the desired impact. The clitoral pump is not intended to be connected to the vaginal opening nor within the vagina, since it may bring about wounds.

 

 

The reasons to use a clitoral pump is not just confined to sexual joy purposes. Their utilization is frequently prescribed by doctors for treating female sexual issues joined with anorgasmia. Enhanced blood stream to the private parts may be attained to through standard use of the vacuum device.  This rejuvenation is a substitute to surgical procedures such as Labiaplasty etc.

What Is Pussy Pumping?

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Female pumping is a sexual practice in which ladies participate in vacuum pumping their genitalia. The practice has now stretched out to different parts of the body and can be including the vacuum pumping of the breasts, nipples, clitoris, and labiaas well as any other body part that you’d like to apply it to. Suction containers and cylinders can be applied to virtually any part of the body, and in some cases even between people making for some interesting combinations and techniques.

 

Plastic Clitoral Pump For Increased Pleasure And Sensation

 

Some people will find considerable pleasure through the act of pumping. Considering that men have been pumping up their penises for many years both in regards to providing sexual pleasure and in the treatment of male sexual dysfunction, its little wonder that women have picked up the ball and started on the pumping trend themselves. There’s even the ancient Chinese act of cupping which has numerous health benefits which we will explore in another article on this website. Women’s pumping, for the most part provides new spotlights onto the body. Female sex and sexuality has long been regarded as a mystery in comparison to men. It was only in the past few decades where women have been allowed to openly embrace their sexuality without societal judgement. Vibrators and sexual aides are becoming accepted and less taboo, and Adult Stores are changing their looks and images in order to cater to the female clientele. With the stigma breaking down, women are becoming more interested in the idea of fetish and more obscure sexual practices and this is inclusive of pumping.

Throughout time, and since the advent of the internet whereby we can place content on the internet through articles and images there has been a surge in all things obscure and fetish like. Indeed, there are now adult films and sites specialising in all sorts of wonderful fetishes such as fat sex, cougar sex, and even more out there ones such as mechanophilia. This has included pumping, with a range of places now dedicated to pumped up labia’s, extra-large clitorises, and BDSM sites dedicated to pumping and suction play. Suction and pumping play is not something that everyone can understand, and as such is often considered to be one of the more unique sexual practices in the world in the sense that it doesn’t necessarily involve orgasm or ejaculation, but simply is an enhancement of sexual pleasure through the stimulation of the genitalia. This sees a lot of people receiving sexual gratification from the participation of such an activity, which is partially why it’s so popular.

Suction, and the use of vacuum pressure on the body is not something that is new. It has been found in ancient practices all over the world including China which has used cupping for the healing treatment of sore muscles and body aches and pains. In the early nineties, and perhaps even before that, we started to explore the benefits of female pumping. This is despite the first penis pump being developed in the late 1800’s and early 1900’s. Someone, somewhere had realised the pumps were working on men, so why not try it on themselves? From there, it exploded as people began to realise the benefits that clitoral pumping had. The most notable being that the extra blood flow which was being drawn into the genital tissues were bringing extra oxygen and nutrients to the nerves and thus helping them increase their sensitivity.

 

Blood Cells Carrying Oxygen Increase Sensitivity During Vaginal And Clitoral Pumping

 

We know that the advantages of female pumping are clear, we know that the vacuum and suction increases blood flow and oxygen to the nerves of the genitals. This increased blood flow from the resulting vacuum activates the nerves and increases sensitivity, making it much easier for women who had previously had difficulty reaching orgasms to achieve an orgasm more often. Indeed, the utilization of vacuum pumps is being used with the treatment of anorgasmia and other women’s sexual dysfunction. Women who partake in the activity of pumping up their clitoris and or labia find that they’re receiving far greater stimulation and sensation than before as well as becoming more sexually aroused as they see and recognise the changes that are taking place. One of the main reasons as to this arousal is the centre of attention that has been placed onto the female.

By this we mean that research has suggested that women have a tendency to become more mentally and physically aroused when they realise that someone is aesthetically pleased by their genitals. There are men out there that absolutely love pumped up labia’s and will seemingly froth at the mouth at such an event. The arousal is increased through his both parties explicit pleasure.

The act of pumping is therefore something which can provide physical and mental pleasure to both parties. In much the same way as lingerie and erotic clothing works, excepting a pumped up labia and clitoris provides physical sensation and excitement as well as visual stimulation.

Despite all of this, care must be taken to not over pump the area which can result in pain and temporary numbing. In extreme cases pumping may disrupt blood vessels and cause bruising. It is important that any suction activity be done carefully and with patience. That’s not to say that you can’t take it to the extreme, there are some women which like to push their bodies and their capabilities to the very edge, and this is especially useful within BDSM and role play scenarios, but people that do this have an intuitive understanding of their bodies, know their limits and capabilities and don’t ever push too far beyond them.

Clitoral Enlargement Techniques

Clitoris Scale

Not only are there penis pumps and vaginal pumps but there’s also a range of clitoral pumps as well. Using a good quality vacuum pumping system can help in a size increase for your clitoris. The size increase has numerous benefits, firstly there are many people that find enlarged clitoris to be aesthetically pleasing and attractive, however the general approach with enlarged clitorises is that it can create all sorts of sensory thrills for you and your partner. Clitoral pumping, and female pumping, lends itself to all sorts of fun, exciting and intimate activities including gender bending and gender play, BDSM and medical scenes/roleplay as well as it being fun and cheeky for those who love the latest in sexual development and technology.

A clitoral pumping system will consist of a small clear cylinder around ¾” by 4” which will be attached to a flexible tube which is in turn connected to a powerful hand regulated and operated vacuum pump. Now this vacuum pump, through intense suction, will help in the promotion of blood flow by pulling blood into the clitoris and surrounding genitalia. As the clitoris, the clitoral hood, parts of the labia and vagina become engorged with blood you will see and feel the clitoris “grow” from being sucked into the clitoral chamber.

 

Some people will find that the resulting tugging sensation is enough to induce an orgasm, where some people will be reduced to writhing around in sustained pleasure. However, what is the point of clitoral pumping? Clitoral pumping varies between individuals in much the same way as other pumping fetishes do in terms of that there’s generally a myriad of reasons as to why they’d like to pump up a specific body part. For clitoral pumpers, they might be interested in an enlarged clitoris that is big enough for penetration, for others they might just enjoy the thrill of playing with a swollen engorged clitoris which is extremely sensitive during pumping play and pumping sessions. Other people might prefer the sensation that is applied to the clitoris after the pump has been removed. This intensity is not for everyone, and some people might find it to be too intense. Here are the basics on how to do it:

1.      Firstly you will need to prepare the area.

A clitoral pump will work best if the area has been warmed up with a damp cloth and warm water and good blood flow has been massaged into the area. For clitoral pumping, it does help to be in a state of arousal. With all this is mind it might be beneficial to have a bath and a shower first, as well as to shave any remaining pubic hair that you might have which could interfere with a seal.

2.      Use a thick water based lubricant.

Both around the clitoral region, and against the base of the cylinder to help create the perfect seal. Coating the clitoris and the inside of the cylinder at the same time to prevent chafing.

3.      Get a grip onto the cylinder.

You will need to be holding the cylinder tightly and snugly against your skin with one hand, and the hand pump will be placed in the other hand. Press gently down on the cylinder against the cylinder and slowly squeeze the pump so that you can create your seal. Once the suction has created the seal, you may let go of the cylinder.

4.      Go slowly.

Treat it like an experiment. Start off with the safety valve open slightly so you can feel some slight sucking sensations. Then try it with the valve closed, notice how each squeeze of the pump increases the vacuum pull on the clitoris and ultimately the surrounding tissue.  Pause after each squeeze and pump and see how it feels. Do not expect the clitoris to fill the entire chamber. Experiment with different pressures and pumping lengths to see how you go.

5.      Experience and enjoy the new level of sensations.

Stop pumping every now and then and just let yourself feel as to what’s happening and what’s going on. Spend a few minutes enjoying these sensations, or get your partner to provide some extra stimulation, letting them enjoy your enlarged clitoris in their mouth, with a vibrator, or even some light stroking.

6.      Do not over pump.

A little pumping will go a long way and over pumping can create issues. Now it won’t deaden the clitoris and make it fall off, but it can create bruises and other painful ailments. It is important that you do not over pump. If you’re finding yourself numb as opposed to being super sensitive, then you’ve probably over pumped. Make sure to do it less next time.

7.      Play around with your new equipment.

Some cylinders can actually have the tubing removed so that you can create a seal, and then remove the pump from the cylinder, leaving the cylinder attached to the body. From here the cylinder can be detached with the cylinders own quick release button. Play around with your new enlarged clit, you might choose to tug on it gently, tickle it with a stroking finger, or maybe even hold a light vibrator to it. Might even be time to call in a friend for some extra stimulation as well.

8.      Go slowly.

Some pumpers will report small and permanent increases over time, however for the most part the swollen tissue of the clitoris and surrounding region  will slowly reside immediately after the removal of the pump and return all the way back to normal by the next day.

Some clitoral pumpers will enlarge the clit to the size of a small penis for penetrative play, or for oral sex. Throw the sensation of this with a tighter feeling vagina and you have a sensual recipe for amazing play.