In modern life, the vortex of everyday life can make us fall into certain routines that can negatively affect our relationships as a couple so let’s try and innovate in sex. Having breakfast together, going out to work at the same time or playing sports on the same days. They are attitudes that can cause us to fall into a monotonous relationship where intimate relationships are harmed.
Do you have sex on the same day of the week and at the same time?
Managing sexuality in a relationship is crucial, just as much as attending to emotional needs. Neglecting either can lead to dissatisfaction and a sense of incompleteness, which can ultimately result in the breakdown of the relationship. Relying on sex professionals such as aussie escorts can give a boost to our optimism and, perhaps, to life as a couple.
Prior to the pandemic, certain activities were deemed taboo or risky, but the current situation has led to an increase in experimentation with sexual practices. Many couples are incorporating these once-forbidden activities into their erotic routines as a means of adding excitement and variety.
Here are some of them.Â
Bondage, the best-known erotic practice
Restraining your partner by tying them with ropes, bandages or toy handcuffs is one of the most popular practices among couples. The boom of books like 50 Shades of Grey have helped to break taboos and encourage many couples to experiment with this type of sexual practice.Â
Try new positions in bed
Much is said about the kamasutra but few couples have gotten down to work to put into practice the many positions that can be put into practice in bed. Maybe you don’t get bored of the classic “missionary”, but what if your partner does? Cheer up and take the opportunity to get to know your body better and look for more pleasurable positions.
Incorporate sex toys into your routine
In this day and age, individuals who prefer modesty need not venture into a physical sex shop to add some excitement to their romantic relationship. The convenience of e-commerce presents an opportunity to browse through an extensive range of sex toys, enabling one to select the ideal option to suit their preferences. This includes items like pheromone fragrances, massage oils, alluring apparel, and even vibrators that can be enjoyed together.
Online sex
If you are single or in a long distance relationship, a good opportunity is to opt for online sex. A practice that has been increased by the pandemic and by the services of escorts and dating apps that offer sex virtually to their clients.
The new behaviors of society have made that sexual encounters by video call or the practice of sexting (sending erotic messages, photos and personal sex videos via cell phone). They are an excellent way to break the monotony and add innovation to life as a couple.Â
Turn your home into a spa
The bathroom, if it is big enough, or the bedroom can become a real spa if you set your mind to it. Candles and incense, with a glass of wine or champagne will help you create an erotic atmosphere. Relax and enjoy with your partner in the shower or in the bathtub of a most exciting encounter.
Innovation in sexual activities can play a vital role in spicing up your love life and preventing monotony. Exploring new ways and ideas to renew your intimate relationship with your partner can be a great way to strengthen your bond without even stepping outside your home.
Water-based and silicone-based lubricants. Difference, pros and cons
Lubricants have become an integral part of the intimate life of almost every couple. Correctly selected lubricant is the key to high-quality and long-lasting sex. And the wrong choice can ruin the mood, ruin the vibrator or even cause disappointment in sexual performance.
So what should you know and consider when you decide to purchase lubricants?
First of all you should know that personal lubricant can be water, silicone and fat based. Fat-based lubricant is extremely unpopular due to incompatibility with condoms, many sex toys, and also for aesthetic reasons. Few people want to feel fat on their bodies or get their laundry dirty.
For years, there has been an ongoing debate between water-based and silicone-based lubricants. Each type has its own set of pros and cons that should be carefully considered when selecting a lubricant for a specific purpose. To help you make an informed decision, we will provide a detailed breakdown of both types.
Lets explore the benefits and drawbacks of water-based lubricants, which are widely used in the market.
Pros of water-based lubricants
- Water-based lubricant is the most versatile, as it is compatible with absolutely all types of materials from which sex toys are made and does not destroy latex condoms. This makes her a sales leader.
- Can be used not only for vaginal but also for anal sex. In this case, you should purchase a special lubricant with a denser texture.
- There is also a special water-based lubricant for oral sex. It literally gives taste to such fun, helps to bring variety to intimate life, and is absolutely safe for health. However, it should not be used for other types of sex as it dries quickly and leaves a sticky feeling. At the same time, ordinary lubricant without foreign additives is tasteless, therefore it is suitable for those partners who like to alternate dips of penis from the vagina into the mouth.
- The water-based lubricant is hypoallergenic and suitable for almost all people with any sensitivity or skin type. It also does not leave marks on the fabric and can be easily removed during washing.
- These lubricants are recommended for frequent use, such as daily exercise with vaginal balls or to prevent vaginal dryness. In addition, natural components and vitamins are often included in the composition, which has an extremely positive effect on women’s health and the microflora of intimate organs
- And, of course, the price. Such lubricants have good price and are available to everyone.
Cons of water-based lubricants
- According to statistics, coitus lasts on average 5-6 minutes, the same amount of water-based lubrication works before being absorbed. If you run sex marathons, you will have to apply it several times.
- When choosing such a lubricant, you should pay attention to whether it contains glycerin. Of course, all modern intimate cosmetics are dermatologically tested and safe for health. However, glycerin causes a sticky feeling and, if used frequently, may contribute to yeast infection development.
- If you want to have some fun in the shower or bath, then know that the water-based lubricant will be washed off in a matter of seconds and you will not be able to realize your fantasies.
What you need to know about silicone-based lubricant?
Pros of silicone-based lubricants
- The main advantage of silicone-based lubricant is, of course, its ability for absorption during a very long time, so even the longest sex will literally be “like clockwork”! That is why most lubricants for anal sex are silicone-based. Well, if you like to please one person with an erotic massage, then this lubricant will help make it even more sensual, giving your hands a flawless glide over the body.
- Having decided to have sex in the pool or shower, you can safely take such a lubricant with you. It is not easily washed off with water, so nothing will prevent you from enjoying each other in such a romantic setting.
- Silicone-based lubricant is non-toxic, has no preservatives and is absolutely safe for health.
Cons of silicone-based lubricants
- Silicone-based lubricants are absolutely incompatibility with intimate devices made of cyber leather, TPR and silicone. Such lubricants are only compatible with sex devices made of glass, metal or plastic.
- This kind of lube is poorly absorbed. Therefore, it should be washed off immediately after sex to avoid discomfort later.
- It has extremely unpleasant taste, so you will have to forget about oral sex with it.
- There is a possibility that marks or stains may remain on clothing or bedding.
- And price. Silicone-based lubricants belong to a higher price segment.
Select lubricants that cater to individual requirements. Seeking advice from a partner is advisable during the selection process. The choice of lubricants is constantly expanding, and manufacturers are continually enhancing their products to meet consumer needs. A recent innovation in California involved the creation of a hemp-based lubricant, aimed at enhancing sexual pleasure a fast-tracing orgasms for women.
We hope that our information will help you to make the right choice, despite the above differences that a water-based or silicone-based lubricant has.
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