Guide To Female Squirting

Squirting Female

One of the most popular new sex acts for women to try is to have a squirting orgasm, although really the squirting part can be quite independent of an orgasm. Squirting, or female ejaculation, has been on the increase with its prevalence in many porn films, finding its way into its own category, both online and on DVD shelves.

Can all women squirt?

Physiologically, yes. Psychologically, individually, not necessarily. Put simply, there are a number of steps to maximise your chances of squirting, starting first and foremost with understanding what it is, and how your body can get there.

What is female ejaculation?

There are mixed ideas about where female ejaculation comes from (pun intended). Essentially, it all stems from direct stimulation of the G-spot and the Skene’s glands behind it. If you’re still looking for your g-spot, it can be found about a finger’s depth inside the vagina, on the anterior wall (front side) and will feel like a soft, ridged area that swells with arousal.

What you may not already know, is the g-spot is actually contained within the clitoral network! Check out this 3D printed model of the full clitoral network or this sketch to see just how it all fits into place. When aroused, those clitoral bulbs swell and arch back towards the spine, instead of aimed at the thighs, and will be stimulated at the area known as the g-spot.

But what is it exactly that ‘squirts’ out? Nope, it’s not pee. In fact, the Skene’s glands will produce a fluid with almost the same chemical composition as prostatic fluid, sans semen.

So how can I get there?

Firstly, with patience and practise. Get well acquainted with your g-spot, ensure your kegels are firm for a greater squirt, and work out the best mood, settings, and toys to get you off like never before.

Getting in touch with your g-spot.

As described above, it’s fairly easy to find your g-spot when you know what you’re looking for. Fingers can get the job done, but if you want to save yourself (or your partner) the work, look for a good quality toy for a truly intense experience. Something simple like the Evolved Rainbow G or the Nu Sensuelle Aimii is a great way to start. For something completely different, there are some great products on offer from Lelo, Fun Factory and Zalo.

Lelo has the Ina Wave and the Mona Wave, both having a gorgeously smooth, bulbous head, but the Ina also has an external massager, a more classic ‘rabbit’ shape. The ‘Wave’ part of the name refers to the movement the insertable end does, known as a ‘come hither’ motion.

The Fun Factory Stronic G is a solid toy with a fantastic curve at the tip to massage your g-spot. What makes it stand out is the ‘stronic’, essentially a hands-free, thrusting toy.

The Zalo Queen ranks very high for those who have discovered this hidden gem (although the elegant Swarovski crystal on it is not hidden at all). Utilizing pulse wave technology, the curved tip of this pleasure device will pulse and throb on your g-spot. The Zalo Queen Set also comes with a removable sheath that when in place, acts as a clitoral stimulation toy like a Womanizer. All of this makes the Queen one seriously versatile toy!

On with the show

Now that you’re in touch and confident with hitting your g-spot, it’s time to put everything together and get on the road to squirting. Remember, it may not happen the first time, or possibly even at all, so make sure you focus on all the amazing sensations you’ll experience while having a go. Even if you don’t squirt, you’ll be sure to have multiple mind-blowing orgasms!

Preliminary Activities

  • Make sure you’ve been working on your kegels! Your kegels, also known as PC muscles or your pelvic floor, are the muscles you use when you hold in a wee. By activating and holding them, you can start to work them to be stronger and firmer and just like using weights with your presses, crunches and squats, using kegel balls can help greatly with the process of getting these muscles to strengthen and deliver you more mind blowing orgasms. Look for something like Satisfyer Balls or the geniusly designed Aneros Evi to help with your new favourite workout.
  • It’s recommended to empty your bladder before getting started, but at the same time, keep yourself hydrated in the lead up.
  • If all goes as planned, things may get a little messy, so use a towel underneath you, or a waterproof sex sheet like the Scandal Super Sheet or the Kink Play Sheet.
  • Set the mood. Light some candles, put some Wildfire Tease oil into an oil burner, maybe read an erotic short story and, if you don’t live alone, maybe put on some background music and lock your door.

Tools of the Trade

  • As mentioned above, have you favourite g-spot toy handy.
  • Again, for external clitoral stimulation, your fingers will work a treat but a good sex toy will really help drive you over the edge. Try the intense Zumio X or Zumio S, the Fun Factory Volta, the pulse technology of a Womanizer Premium, or your favourite bullet. To truly ramp it up, go with what the professionals use, a strong, corded wand like the Doxy Number 3.
  • Lube is your best friend. Remember, only use water based lubricants on toys. You can’t beat anything from Pjur (pronounced ‘pure’), try the Pjur Woman Aqua (or Nude if you’re sensitive) for a lube that won’t throw out your pH balance, or the lovely and thick Pjur Toy Lube.

Turning up the Heat

Ok, now you’re all ready to go, with your toys and lube on hand, music in the background, flickering candlelight and the scent of lavender and rose geranium filling the room, the crunch of your Kink Play Sheet beneath an old linen sheet. Time to get down to business.

Arousal is key, and so is patience. Take your time, caress your body, love yourself. Don’t rush to penetration. As you play with your clit, be it with your fingers or a toy, she will start to swell, both externally and internally, and the more aroused you are, the easier you’ll be able to find your g-spot and the more pressure it will be able to handle.

When you do finally go for penetration, stimulate your g-spot with firm and steady movement (the ‘come hither’ motion is your best friend here) for some amount of time, definitely longer than ten minutes.

It may feel like you have to pee, and this is totally normal. You won’t pee, so don’t worry about it.

Continuing with stimulation of your g-spot, start building up speed, either on your toy or with fingers. Remember to try and stay relaxed and not tense up. As you journey towards orgasm, steer into the skid and let yourself go by pushing out with your kegel muscles when you feel the urge to pee.

Don’t block the entrance when you finally squirt, let it all freely flow, but keep stimulating your clitoris to keep you well and truly over the line.

As mentioned earlier, you may not squirt on your first attempt, or possibly ever, so don’t be hard on yourself in this case. Just enjoy yourself and all your newfound skills.

If you need any further information speak the the consultants at the Oh Zone Adult Stores, Sydney – they will only be too pleased to assist, Good luck!

Main Benefits Of Erotic Massages

Erotic massages are tabu for some and pleasure for others. No matter the case, there is no way to deny the fact that an erotic massage will offer numerous benefits. Our daily lives are filled with stress, relationship problems, anxiety and more. A Paris outcall massage offers you a way to escape and enjoy life more, together with the benefits listed below, just to mention the main ones. 

Pleasure

This is the most obvious benefit, the one that everyone knows. The erotic massage means you enjoy sensual touches for as long as you want to. All of your senses will come alive. You can even choose a duo erotic massage so that you get double the pleasure in just one session. 

Relaxation

Having a really long and stressful workday is much more common than it should be. The erotic massage will help a lot to deal with the stress since it will relax your mind and body. It becomes so simple to forget about your tasks, customers and all other worries you might have. 

If you want to relax, consider the erotic massage that starts with relaxing techniques. The masseuse will start with your toes, buttocks, arms, back and neck. The body massage basically follows the massages of the extremities for increased relaxation. 

We have to add that the erotic massage is deep, sensual and intense. Because of this, it can be more relaxing than with regular massages that are done for relaxation purposes. 

A Unique Experience

If you never got an erotic massage till now, you have to get ready for a completely new experience. Also, even if you did try the erotic massage in the past, the number of available options is much higher than in the past, with numerous different techniques that can be used. Always look for something special and different, all based on your desires and what you know you will love. 

Increased Trust

One of the benefits most people do not know is that an erotic massage also increases the individual’s trust. This can do wonders when there are work problems or after a breakup. 

No Monotony

Unfortunately, most people end up living a completely monotonous life. They just do the exact same things every single day. We need new things in our life in order to be happy. This is where the erotic massage can step in to offer a really good helping hand. In a salon, you can enjoy a nude erotic massage, a sensual erotic massage, a body erotic massage and many other massage types. 

Delight

When you get an erotic massage, you receive all the pleasure and attention you need. The experience is completely about you. A masseuse will make you feel like the most special person in the world. In many cases, clients are completely overwhelmed. Is this something you want? It will surely delight you. 

An erotic massage will make you happier and more confident. It will do wonders when it comes to self-esteem and nobody can deny the pleasure that you are going to feel. There is simply no reason why you should not enjoy one.

What Real Women Really Think About Being Submissive

Submissive BDSM

For a strong woman living an independent life in the 21st century, feminism is usually a big deal. Men who get off on being dominated by women dressed in leather and holding a whip are seen as men who’ve found an excellent way to release some of the stress built up inside their body. But what about the women who like to submit to their partners for sexual pleasure? Are they seen as weak and dependant? To most people, being a feminist means standing up for yourself and not letting a man tell you what to do. But could sexual submission and feminism actually go hand in hand? According to the ladies who like being on the receiving end of a little D/s play, submission is all about being pleased without having to be in control. Submissive women dating comes down to using her surrender to turn her on and blowing her mind while finding pleasure in her pleasure, and below we discuss this in more detail.

They’re No Push-Overs

Women who enjoy submitting themselves to their partners’ command agree that being a sub in the bedroom doesn’t mean being a push-over in life. Being a sub is about being overly compliant, but in no way does it mean being lazy or unwilling to take a more active role during sex.

Most of the women who take on the submissive role in the bedroom are very controlling in life. They hold positions of power and deal with lots of pressure at work. Some of them are even perceived as intimidating by their peers. Nobody looks after them, and when they come home and want to unwind they want something different. They want to be taken care of.

In the privacy of their homes and bedrooms, they don’t want to be the ones to make all the decisions and they certainly don’t want any of the responsibility anymore. They need a break from taking care of everyone and just want to surrender to their partners, knowing that they’ll be given what they want if they do what they’re told.

It’s Not Just Whips and Chains

Not every Sub enjoys direct control. Being tied up with a blindfold on is just one of the options as there are plenty of ladies out there who like to be restrained with words or just a glance. Some of them don’t like to comply right away and enjoy a little power struggle with their partners. They won’t do something the first time they’re told as they want to push their partners to the limit and make them be truly persuasive Doms.

For a D/s relationship to really work, there has to be a high level of trust and communication between the people involved. Women who like to be submissive say they are turned on by their men patronizing them in the bedroom, but they would never tolerate being pushed over in the same way by their partners in any other setting. Also, these women would never be happy if their partners dominated them, told them what to do, and then not satisfy their sexual needs because no good D/s relationship is ever one-sided.

It Strengthens the Bond

Couples who practice these kinds of D/s activities in the bedroom couldn’t really be equal partners outside of it, right? Well, wrong. So many of these couples balance this against how they feel about each other the rest of the time and in no way is anyone ever treated like a doormat. Women who are submissive in the bedroom don’t suffer from lack of self-confidence in real life, and just because they like a little BDSM doesn’t mean they do it every time they have sex. They make special dates for a little D/s, and enjoy being ‘used and abused’ on occasion as a way to release everyday stress. Women who submit to their partners sexually are usually very strong and very trusting, and they know that if their partners really enjoy dominating them, this submission would only deepen their connection and their relationship.

To them, being a sub is empowering and they don’t feel lesser because of it. They feel very sexy and turned on, plus if it’s a secret and nobody knows they’re into it, it makes them feel naughty in a very good way. What’s more, these women are often feminists, and the D/s play in no way diminishes that because the most important thing is to use the sub’s submission to turn her on and please her. It’s also important that each partner can openly communicate their desires without fear of judgment or rejection. Rejection is usually something that rarely happens because these couples trust each other to a point that pretty much everything is on the table, provided they talk about it first.

Finally, some women think that submission doesn’t do it for them because they’re inferior. Instead, it’s such a great turn-on because they’re thrill seekers. They love just letting go, not being in control or having to make any decisions, and just being able to enjoy the sensations and experiences. They compare their D/s play to a roller coaster ride and say if they were in charge of the ride they wouldn’t be able to enjoy it as much as the passengers.

The Best Dildos and Sex Toys!

A sexually-active woman who knows her worth and appreciates good tastes would know that in order to buy best dildos and sex toys you must simply go to the best adult stores. And what better adult stores would have top notch dildos for sale at one of my favorite websites  Pleasures N’ Treasures.

It is more than a statement of fact that stocking the best dildos for sale will make buyers happy in all parts of the world. Just name it. Whatever brand you might have come across in the past before are going to be available online.  Whether you are shopping in Canada, Australia or any other part of the world make sure that  you find an adult shop that stand by their brand and reputation.

Experience is the best teacher so look for a website that has been around for a number of years – no fly by night ecommerce, that has built up a customer base with product reviews and customer testimonials.  You will learn more from a business  customer reviews than you will by their advertising that is often ‘fake news’.  When looking for the best dildos on line it is important to know what it is that you are desiring for in a sex toy that will encompass look, feel, materials, design and so much more.  Personal taste and preference is very important.

Logically, anyone would want to know then what dildos are available?  There are various types of these dildos for sale.  A few examples to wet  your appetite.

Dldos can be classified into three main groups as follows:

  • Large dildos – when you think of hard and length
  • Vibrating dildos – which is everything you want and much more
  • Realistic dildos – for fun that is super and realistic

Now, in all of the above, there are a variety of different brands of dildos which can serve and satisfy you in pleasurable ways.

Take for instance the Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo. At six inches in size, it is a sight that would arouse the most fantastic of erotic fantasies. Our bulging friend is not only flexible but it is also firm and brings real feel and pleasures whenever you want to play. You would no doubt agree with us that it is properly primed for hands-free adventures because of its suction cup base. Its full body and veins make the whole experience realistic and mind-blowing.

Are you still thinking of what else you can get when you want to buy your best dildo?

Have you considered the Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo? Measuring at an irresistible length of five and a half inches long, it no doubt is one of the best dildos for sale because it simply packs everything that a woman would ever want in a lover made of silicone. And then it packs more. The curved shaft is designed to pleasure your P and G-spots. Its suction cup is strong and has a safe flared base. The only component in this love equation is actually you. Now, ask yourself what is keeping you from letting go and letting the Lovehoney take you there?

When you shop at adult stores online you actually come to view and learn aobut the best dildos for sale. And when you think of the best dildos for sale in Canada, Australia or worldwide, you may think of Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator. There is no reason to look at anything else when it comes to hands-free pleasures. This dildo is made from premium silicone and it is double-ended for shared fun. Your clitoral bliss is guaranteed because of its bunny ears, while the perfect fit and angle are achieved by its posable pony.

The kegel muscles of the wearer keep this strapless strap-on tightly in place, and by inserting the pony (which is the sorter of the two shafts) it is really great for pegging and same-sex adventures.

It must be stated that in order to benefit from shared arousal with the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator, you must explore the complete range of patterns and vibration speeds. And to achieve this, the wearer would have to find the best angle and fit that works for both partners by tilting the pony.

And when it comes to the stats that makes this particular dildo one that you must buy if you want the best dildos, then you should consider these: it has 4.5 inches of insertable length for the wearer along with a circumference of 4.75 inches, while an insertable length of 5 inches and a circumference of 4.25 inches is available for the receiver.

Do you need a pleasure tip for getting the best out of your new dildo? Before you begin your foreplay, always spray your dildos with a water-based lube that will make your sex sessions all the more enjoyable.  If you find that your desire has been properly aroused, check out the ranges at sex stores online.

Casual Sex!

Easy Sex

Having a fling or one night stand as the case may be can brighten up your day and put a smile on your face. This is particularly true for persons that are experiencing a bit of a drought or you are in between relationships. The growing evidence that having a friends with benefits type of arrangement or just a fling can leave both parties feeling super excited. This claim has been substantiated by several studies with popular sex and relationship expert, Chantelle Austin supporting the notion. “FWB [scenarios] allow busy individuals to have their sexual needs met, and a companion where needed, without having the time commitment of building and maintaining a healthy relationship,” says Chantelle Austin.

One of the most exciting parts of casual sex and having an f-buddy is the fact that no emotions are involved, which can leave both parties feeling great and excited. However, this does not take away the position of love in a relationship or talking bad about the big L, as it only helps to reiterate the fact that finding and keeping can be a daunting task.

Making a relationship work is a difficult task, to say the least as parties involved have to sacrifice their emotions, time, and finances to ensure they are happy. It gets even worse when the relationship fails or is short of the happily-ever-after fantasy most people dream of, leaving both parties feeling used and messed up. On the other side of the situation is a no-strings-attached relationship where there is a better chance of both parties leaving each other feeling cheerful even after an eventful time.

“Friendship with benefits is a kind of romantic compromise in which the agent gives up romantic love,” says Aaron Ben-Zeév, a professor of philosophy and expert in relationship issues. Fortunately, people get to a particular stage life where the only thing they need is a romantic relationship that is free of any emotional attachment.

Casual sex is also great for persons that are not ready to get married as it allows them to have sex without being tied to a particular individual. “Another perk is being able to have more than one friend with benefits for added spice and variety, and back-ups, if one isn’t available when you need them,” says Chantelle Austin.

Another amazing thing about casual sex comes from the popular saying that variety is the spice of life as having sex with a particular person over and over again can be somewhat boring. This is so as it becomes difficult to keep the attraction and spice and attraction. Some experts have even gone ahead to start that man did not evolve to be monogamous in nature. However, this does not take away the place and importance of marriage in the society and no one should actually give up on settling down and sticking to a partner. It only means that you can enjoy yourself and have short-term lovers while you are single.

In the words of Chantelle Austin, “Multiple short-term casual relationships can keep a feeling of romance and initial fire ongoing, as one loses its spark, a new one can be started. The downside, never getting into the deep love connection but then, you have to go through a few false starts until you find that life-partner in crime.”

Besides the feel-good hormones that bounce around after orgasm, sex buddies are also great for filling your sexual needs created by a broken relationship at least before you meet your next love. This also helps to avoid jumping on the next possible potential relationship that might eventually leave you heartbroken.

“Friends with benefits can fill the sexual and companion needs in between long-term relationships and give people opportunities to become better lovers and better partners by learning and making mistakes with their casual flings,” says sexpert, Austin.

All in all, one of the major fun parts of casual sex is the lack of control of one party over the other. This point is clearly stated in Austin’s words where she noted that “Having friends with benefits often has a much more casual feeling to it and therefore neither one owns the other or has much of a say over how the other lives, whom they see and what they do, allowing for the freedom to be and do what they want and enjoy the sex and company when they choose. For people who can create relationships with a similar freedom structure, they thrive too.”

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Casual sex

Casual sex is great but only for the well-prepared ones, as women are often victims of letting their emotions get the better of them. Therefore, it is advised that anyone entering such a relationship should throw his or her emotions out the window for the time being.