Casual Sex!

Having a fling or one night stand as the case may be can brighten up your day and put a smile on your face. This is particularly true for persons that are experiencing a bit of a drought or you are in between relationships. The growing evidence that having a friends with benefits type of arrangement or just a fling can leave both parties feeling super excited. This claim has been substantiated by several studies with popular sex and relationship expert, Chantelle Austin supporting the notion. “FWB [scenarios] allow busy individuals to have their sexual needs met, and a companion where needed, without having the time commitment of building and maintaining a healthy relationship,” says Chantelle Austin.

One of the most exciting parts of casual sex and having an f-buddy is the fact that no emotions are involved, which can leave both parties feeling great and excited. However, this does not take away the position of love in a relationship or talking bad about the big L, as it only helps to reiterate the fact that finding and keeping can be a daunting task.

Making a relationship work is a difficult task, to say the least as parties involved have to sacrifice their emotions, time, and finances to ensure they are happy. It gets even worse when the relationship fails or is short of the happily-ever-after fantasy most people dream of, leaving both parties feeling used and messed up. On the other side of the situation is a no-strings-attached relationship where there is a better chance of both parties leaving each other feeling cheerful even after an eventful time.

“Friendship with benefits is a kind of romantic compromise in which the agent gives up romantic love,” says Aaron Ben-Zeév, a professor of philosophy and expert in relationship issues. Fortunately, people get to a particular stage life where the only thing they need is a romantic relationship that is free of any emotional attachment.

Casual sex is also great for persons that are not ready to get married as it allows them to have sex without being tied to a particular individual. “Another perk is being able to have more than one friend with benefits for added spice and variety, and back-ups, if one isn’t available when you need them,” says Chantelle Austin.

Another amazing thing about casual sex comes from the popular saying that variety is the spice of life as having sex with a particular person over and over again can be somewhat boring. This is so as it becomes difficult to keep the attraction and spice and attraction. Some experts have even gone ahead to start that man did not evolve to be monogamous in nature. However, this does not take away the place and importance of marriage in the society and no one should actually give up on settling down and sticking to a partner. It only means that you can enjoy yourself and have short-term lovers while you are single.

In the words of Chantelle Austin, “Multiple short-term casual relationships can keep a feeling of romance and initial fire ongoing, as one loses its spark, a new one can be started. The downside, never getting into the deep love connection but then, you have to go through a few false starts until you find that life-partner in crime.”

Besides the feel-good hormones that bounce around after orgasm, sex buddies are also great for filling your sexual needs created by a broken relationship at least before you meet your next love. This also helps to avoid jumping on the next possible potential relationship that might eventually leave you heartbroken.

“Friends with benefits can fill the sexual and companion needs in between long-term relationships and give people opportunities to become better lovers and better partners by learning and making mistakes with their casual flings,” says sexpert, Austin.

All in all, one of the major fun parts of casual sex is the lack of control of one party over the other. This point is clearly stated in Austin’s words where she noted that “Having friends with benefits often has a much more casual feeling to it and therefore neither one owns the other or has much of a say over how the other lives, whom they see and what they do, allowing for the freedom to be and do what they want and enjoy the sex and company when they choose. For people who can create relationships with a similar freedom structure, they thrive too.”

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Casual sex is great but only for the well-prepared ones, as women are often victims of letting their emotions get the better of them. Therefore, it is advised that anyone entering such a relationship should throw his or her emotions out the window for the time being.

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